Learning to Handle RejectionLosing in a photo contest can hurt. You put your heart into a picture, and when it doesn’t win, you start to wonder if you’re any good. I used to take it personally. I’d look at the winners and think,
Mine was better than that. But after a while, I realized that kind of thinking doesn’t help.
Contests are judged by people. And people have different tastes. What one person loves, another might not even notice. That’s just how it is. Once you understand that, it gets easier. You stop thinking about
beating others and start thinking about
improving yourself.
When I lose now, I ask one question: “What can I learn from this?” Maybe the lighting wasn’t right. Maybe the story wasn’t clear. Or maybe it just wasn’t the right fit for that theme. Every time I lose, I write down what I think could be better. Then I move on. That’s how you keep growing.
Some of my favorite photos came right after a loss. It’s funny how failure can light a spark. You get this feeling of wanting to prove to yourself that you can do better. And when you do — when you take a shot that really works — it feels even more special because you earned it.
How Feedback Makes You StrongerIf losing is the hardest part, feedback is the most helpful part. It’s like getting little clues about how to be better.
At first, I didn’t like feedback. It felt scary. I thought people were just pointing out mistakes. But I learned that real feedback is a sign of respect. It means someone took the time to look closely and care enough to say something.
Sometimes the best advice comes in just a few words. One person once told me, “Try using the rule of thirds next time.” I had no idea what that meant, but I looked it up — and it changed the way I take photos. Another time, someone said, “Your photo feels flat because the background is too close.” That one comment helped me understand depth.
That’s the beauty of photo contests that allow reviews and comments. They turn competition into connection. You stop feeling alone with your camera. You start feeling like part of a team. Everyone is learning together.
There’s one site I still use where I can enter photo contests, get reviews, and see how others view my work. It’s easy — you pay once, and then you can join as many contests as you want. You can see it
here. The feedback there is friendly and honest. You can learn something new every week just by reading what others say about your photos.
When you start taking feedback seriously, you’ll notice your photos changing. You’ll plan your shots better. You’ll start to see the light differently. You’ll even think more about the emotion in your pictures. Feedback doesn’t just fix mistakes — it changes how you
see.
Finding the Right ContestsPicking the right photo contest can make a big difference. Some are huge, with thousands of entries. Others are small and personal. Both can be fun, but it depends on what you want.
If you’re new, start small. Look for contests that are open all year or have simple themes. They help you learn without too much pressure. When I started, I joined local and online contests that focused on learning. I didn’t care about big prizes. I just wanted people to look at my work and tell me what they saw.
Now, I enter bigger ones sometimes, but I still go back to the smaller ones too. They remind me why I started taking pictures in the first place — for the love of it.
Before you enter, always check the rules. See who is running the contest. Make sure they post the winners and show real results. A trusted photo contest should be clear and fair. Avoid ones that only talk about prizes and never about feedback or community.
The right contest gives you a chance to learn, grow, and connect. The wrong one just takes your time and money.
Enjoying the Process! Over the years, I’ve learned that photography isn’t about the end result — it’s about the process. Contests give you goals, but the best part is the journey you take to reach them.
When I’m out with my camera, I’m not thinking about winning anymore. I’m thinking about what story I want to tell. Sometimes it’s the quiet of an early morning. Sometimes it’s the laughter of kids playing. Every photo becomes a memory.
I like to call contests my “creative workouts.” Just like athletes train their bodies, contests train your eyes. They make you look harder, wait longer, and try again when things don’t work out.
Photography teaches patience. It teaches you to notice things — how the light changes, how colors shift, how emotions show in faces. The more you practice, the more natural it becomes. You start to see photos everywhere, even when you don’t have your camera.
That’s what contests gave me. Not trophies, not fame — but a new way of seeing the world.
When I walk down the street, I notice the way sunlight hits a brick wall. I see patterns in rain puddles. I notice how a shadow can tell a story. That’s what years of photo contests do to you. They train your eyes and your heart to work together.
Sharing Your Work with ConfidenceIf you’re shy about sharing your photos, I understand. I used to be the same way. I’d look at other photographers’ work and think,
Mine isn’t good enough. But the truth is, every great photographer started right where you are — unsure and a little nervous.
The only way to get better is to share your work. You never know who it might touch. One of my photos, a simple black-and-white picture of my dog, got more kind comments than anything else I’ve ever posted. People said it reminded them of their own pets. That’s the magic of photography — your story becomes part of someone else’s.
Contests give you a reason to share. They make you brave. You hit “submit” even when you’re not sure. And every time you do, you grow a little stronger.